260 | Navigating Tough Conversations with Parents in CCPT

Episode summary

In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I respond to Michelle from Ireland, who posed three important questions about challenges in child-centered play therapy (CCPT). First, I discuss how to communicate with parents when their responses to their child's anxiety inadvertently reinforce the behavior they're trying to address—like avoiding school due to weather-related fears. I share strategies for addressing these conversations with kindness, clarity, and confidence, emphasizing the importance of trust in the therapist-parent relationship.

Next, I explore the issue of parents attempting to shield children from all stress or difficulty, such as skipping tests or avoiding challenging situations. I explain how overprotectiveness can hinder a child's ability to develop resilience and problem-solving skills and stress the importance of educating parents on fostering their child's independence. Lastly, I address how to handle a client who engages in repetitive room-wrecking play and offer a neutral, limit-setting strategy to help the child process what they may be stuck on while maintaining therapeutic principles. This episode provides practical advice for therapists navigating these common but complex scenarios.