354 | The Resistance Phase No One Talks About — And Why YOU Must Go Through It

Episode summary

In this episode, I talk honestly about the struggles we all face as child-centered play therapists — not as problems to be avoided, but as essential parts of our own therapeutic journey. After two meaningful conversations this week, and in the context of my own recent grief, I've been reflecting on how CCPT doesn't just grow our clients; it grows us. I share how every CCPT clinician eventually hits a wall of resistance, self-doubt, and frustration, and why that moment is actually the turning point toward mastery if we stay the course.

I draw parallels between the phases children move through in the playroom and the phases we go through as clinicians — initiation, resistance, work, and ultimately a long, steady season of competence and grounded confidence. This episode is a reminder that resistance is not a sign you're doing something wrong. It's a sign that you're becoming who you're meant to be as a CCPT therapist. When we trust the process for ourselves the same way we trust it for our kids, we emerge stronger, clearer, and more connected to the work than ever.