Podcast

309 | CCPT Mindset: When Progress Anxiety Undermines the Model

309 | CCPT Mindset: When Progress Anxiety Undermines the Model

In this episode, I continue the CCPT Mindset series with a deep dive into something we all wrestle with at some point: progress anxiety. As child-centered play therapists, it’s easy to slip into the trap of wanting sessions to “go somewhere”—especially when outside...

308 | Toileting Battles and the Need for Power: CCPT Parent Coaching

308 | Toileting Battles and the Need for Power: CCPT Parent Coaching

In this episode, I respond to a question from Rachel in Missouri about a 5½-year-old client who refuses to poop in the toilet and insists on using a pull-up. We explore how this long-standing habit is likely a reflection of control and vulnerability, and how...

307 | When Parents Call It a Bribe: Defending Choice Giving in CCPT

307 | When Parents Call It a Bribe: Defending Choice Giving in CCPT

In this episode, I respond to a question from Sarah in California about how to explain the difference between bribery and choice giving in CCPT—specifically after a parent watched the Cookies, Choices, and Kids video and thought it sounded like a bribe. I walk through...

306 | CCPT Mindset: The Myth of the Therapeutic Agenda

306 | CCPT Mindset: The Myth of the Therapeutic Agenda

In this episode of the CCPT Mindset series, I unpack the “myth of the therapeutic agenda” and how even well-intentioned goals can lead us away from true child-centeredness. It’s easy to think we’re being helpful when we hope for insight, change, or breakthroughs—but...

304 | Facilitating CPRT With Challenging Parent Dynamics

304 | Facilitating CPRT With Challenging Parent Dynamics

In this episode, I respond to a question from Tess in Illinois about coaching parents with personality disorders—specifically borderline and narcissism—within the CPRT (Child-Parent Relationship Therapy) framework. This is a tough but important topic because it forces...

297 | CCPT Purism: The Child Knows the Way—A Call to Re-Center

297 | CCPT Purism: The Child Knows the Way—A Call to Re-Center

In this final episode of the CCPT Purism series, I wrap up our 11-episode journey with a reflection on what it truly means to live and practice Child-Centered Play Therapy with integrity. I walk through the full arc of the series—from Rogers’ foundational truths to...

296 | Responding to Suicidal Statements in CCPT Sessions

296 | Responding to Suicidal Statements in CCPT Sessions

In this episode, I respond to powerful questions from Angelica and Mikayla about how to approach suicidal statements made by children in CCPT sessions. These statements—like “I want to die” or “I wish I was never born”—can be deeply unsettling. But they don’t always...

295 | Confidentiality, Character Toys, and Religious Topics in CCPT

295 | Confidentiality, Character Toys, and Religious Topics in CCPT

In this episode, I answer a thoughtful series of questions from Mikayla in Illinois that touch on several important topics in CCPT practice: confidentiality when sharing success stories, using neutral versus character-based toys, the use of books and bibliotherapy,...

294 | CCPT Purism: Practicing CCPT in a Directive World

294 | CCPT Purism: Practicing CCPT in a Directive World

In this episode of the CCPT Purism series, I talk about the reality of practicing child-centered play therapy in a world that doesn’t understand it. From insurance documentation and school interventions to parent expectations and supervisor pushback, we’re constantly...

293 | CCPT Purism: Why Non-Directivity Works

293 | CCPT Purism: Why Non-Directivity Works

In this episode of the CCPT Purism series, I take a deep dive into one of the most foundational—and often misunderstood—truths of our model: non-directivity works. I respond to common questions and doubts, like “But what if the child needs to learn something?” or “How...