Podcast Episodes
346 | What to Do When the Child Dictates the Session and Controls the Dialogue
In this episode, I respond to a question from Lungile, a clinician in South Africa working with a 9-year-old girl who engages in highly directive role play—assigning roles, limiting dialogue, and scripting the session. When sessions become this structured, how do we...
345 | When a Child Won’t Go Back to the Playroom: Navigating the “Lobby” Session with the Child and Parents
In this episode, I walk you through one of the most challenging—but entirely normal—scenarios in child-centered play therapy: when a child refuses to go back to the playroom. Whether it's the lobby, hallway, or even the car, I share how we can handle these moments...
344 | Neutral Truth, Big Impact: Communicating with Children and Advocating for Them
In this episode, I answer two questions from Chloe in Georgia. First, I talk about how to navigate physical limitations or health issues—like pregnancy, illness, or injury—in the playroom without disrupting the child’s experience or compromising the therapeutic...
343 | Art of the Session: A Complete Framework for Confident Practice
In this final episode of the Art of the Session series, I walk through a full recap of everything we’ve covered over the past 16 episodes. This has been one of the most in-depth series I’ve ever done, and it’s all about grounding ourselves in the foundational...
342 | Answer or Redirect? Preserving Connection Without Shifting the Focus
In this Q&A episode, I answer three questions from Emily. First, I share how I guide parents to respond when a child—or their sibling—asks why they’re going to therapy. I offer simple, CCPT-aligned language that keeps the explanation safe, supportive, and...
341 | Art of the Session: Role Play in CCPT – Staying Centered When the Child Assigns You a Role
In this episode of the Art of the Session series, I focus on how we engage in role play within child-centered play therapy sessions—and more importantly, how to do it without taking over the process. Role play often trips up even seasoned therapists, especially when...
340 | “I Hate This and I Hate You”: Trust the Process When Kids Push Back in Play Therapy
In this episode, I respond to a powerful and relatable question from Liba in Pennsylvania about working with a highly anxious, intensely resistant 8-year-old diagnosed with ADHD. Liba shares details about his anger, avoidance, control-seeking behavior, and outright...
339 | Art of the Session: “I Wonder” and Whisper Techniques
In this episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I explore two valuable techniques that every child-centered play therapist should have in their toolbox: the “I wonder” statement and the whisper technique. These subtle but powerful responses help us remain adherent to the...
338 | What Parents Really Need to Hear: How to Structure and Deliver Powerful Parent Consultations
In this episode, I answer a question from Juliet in Georgia about how to communicate effectively with parents during the initial parent consultation and ongoing 5-week consults. I break down what to share (and what not to), how to avoid clinical jargon, and why...
337 | Art of the Session: Narrative Commentary in CCPT
In this episode of the Art of the Session series, I introduce a skill I call Narrative Commentary—a powerful tool for those quiet, reflective moments in session when neither content nor emotion is being expressed verbally. When a child isn’t talking or showing strong...
336 | When a Child “Breaks” Limits: Staying True to the CCPT Model
In this episode, I respond to a question from Jordan in New York about handling repeated limit “testing” in the playroom—especially in the context of children navigating divorce. I walk through the essential components of CCPT-aligned limit setting, clarify what...
335 | Art of the Session: Play Session Guidelines – Labeling, Following the Metaphor, & Neutrality
In today’s episode of the Play Therapy Podcast, I continue our Art of the Session series by outlining three key session guidelines that don’t fall into the typical “skills” category, but are essential to ensuring we remain adherent to the CCPT model. These are not...
334 | Preparing Parents for What’s Coming: Set Expectations Early or Struggle Later
In this episode, I answer two important questions from McKenzie in Illinois—both centered around session frequency and resistance during therapy. I explain why weekly sessions are ideal in child-centered play therapy and how communicating that clearly from the very...
333 | Art of the Session: Encouragement and Esteem Building – Helping Kids Believe They’re Capable
In this episode of the Art of the Session series, I explore the final pillar of Child-Centered Play Therapy—Encouragement, with a bonus deep-dive into esteem-building responses. I explain why encouragement is so much more than just a phrase we say—it’s a...
332 | The Screen-Free Playroom: Holding the Line in a Digital World
In this episode, I respond to a question from Kaylia in Arkansas about how to handle children who want to look something up on a phone during a play session. As screens become more prevalent in kids’ lives, this issue is surfacing more frequently in the playroom. I...